Settling for a deadbeat loser is like settling for a job you hate. What is it about non-ideal situations which makes us keep carrying on, doing nothing to change? If you hate your job, get laid with a nice severance check or just change it if you can!
In the beginning, most women don’t know the guy is a deadbeat loser. He is reasonably attractive and tells a good story about his current situation and his ambitions. Obviously, he will be on his best behavior during the wooing process. By the time a woman hooks up with the guy, only afterward will she see his true colors.
Her “oh, shit” moment comes at a time too late to fix anything. As we are generally all optimists, a woman believes she can salvage the relationship and change him for the behavior she wants him to be. He can get a better job, make more money, help with the children, and stay charming.
Unfortunately, no matter how hard she tries, she can’t teach a gorilla how to put down the toilet seat, pay for her affairs, and write her sweet notes of nothing. It’s too late, and eventually, the relationship fades. In retrospect, every woman who has gone out with a deadbeat loser realizes the case. “I don’t know what I was thinking“, is a phrase that always comes up.
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