Package...

A man meets a woman, both like each other and take steps to start a relationship. They start dating, meet the families and friends. Do fun things. They test each other and Imagine how life could be if they are to form a union. They get married ….. But sometimes things doesn't work as hoped or expected.

For the woman, it’s a combo, a package deal. You get the house, the car, the stuff, the kids and the guy. 

A woman has a list of priorities that lives by a year or two into this union. it  includes her kids, her job, her mother, her sister, her friends and Zumba. She can get her needs met in a variety of ways and can have close, intimate relationships with any one of those people on that list, not only with him.

For men the woman is central. He may love his house, his kids, and his stuff but men's primary want is their wife.

Many men complain that they feel they are last on the list, after the kids, her job, her mother, …. and Zumba.

Men desperately need to feel connected to her and often the quickest route to satisfy that need is through intimacy. They also need for their wife to appreciate,  admire and respect them and what they do.Women belittle that need.

Women go into marriage for the marriage while men go into marriage for the woman.

[Vikki Stark M.S.W., M.F.T.]

Bizarre...

Detectives arrested a prominent Houston veterinarian and her boyfriend, for trying to hire a hit man to kill their exes.

Out on bail McDaniel wrote,  “I have two great loves in my life, my daughter, and Leon.” McDaniel jumped off her seventh-floor balcony to her death.

She was largely unhappy until she was introduced to Jacob, a divorce attorney who was nine years her junior.

McDaniel recalled about meeting Jacob for the first time. “I was drawn to him but disgusted at the same time.”  She shared that their first sexual encounter “was like a movie moment… It was the most passionate, romantic moment in my life.” Jacob moved into her condo living together in early 2017. 

Jacob's relationship with his ex-wife were tumultuous.  She pressed charges against him for aggravated stalking.

In 2005, Jacob graduated from medical school on the island of Grenada. He had surgical training in a series of residency programs at different hospitals, but never received a medical license.    A jury convicted Jacob and sentenced him to life in prison. How Bizarre?

Mistake...

We all wants to know the answer, but perhaps it may be better leave well enough alone.
Sometimes it's better to turn around and walk away than to go on in pain.

I'll Try...

One can only promise what he can deliver.

Paraphrasing...

Quick Visit...

Slack...

Better...

The Dance...

Responding to President Donald Trump’s  statement on the killing, Katy Tur of MSNBC falsely claimed Khashoggi was never a member of the Muslim Brotherhood, but he indisputably was a member and a lifelong proponent of its ideologies.  

Ryan Saavedra of the Daily Wire posted the Tur clip and noted that even the liberal Brookings Institute acknowledges Khashoggi was indeed a member of the Brotherhood:

Khashoggi had many friends among the Brotherhood and, as his colleague David Ignatius reported, had joined the movement himself as a young man. 


The Saudi considered him an enemy of the State, and a member of the Brotherhood. The group supported the violent policies of its Palestinian offshoot, Hamas and are linked to violence in Egypt. Recruiters to violent groups also frequently use Brotherhood literature and ideology as a part of its religious indoctrination program for potential recruits to violent groups.

Cruise...

Two children of a 52-year-old Alabama woman who died on a cruise from Florida to Aruba said  their mother, "did not want to go" on the Princess Cruises trip with her husband, They said Leo Tenorio told them the couple was going to work on their relationship during the trip.

The woman plunged from an upper deck  onto a lifeboat after struggling with a man who was seen choking her."

The case remains an active investigation by the FBI.