Manipulation is one of the most reliable behaviors of a narcissist. Whether someone is a full-blown diagnosed narcissist or just displays some of the traits. Manipulation is a key tactic of achieving an end goal. In some cases, manipulation is easy to identify and can be avoided or ignored; take. However, manipulation tends to be much more covert when coming from a personally loved and trusted individual.
The Psychologists describe manipulation as when the abuser is using personal, private, and sensitive information to destabilize the victim. The purpose behind this is ideation, or that the victim is being led to believe something false for the manipulator to gain—or re-gain—control.
Both direct and indirect manipulations are used to keep an individual close and attached. The exaggerated and dramatic tales are meant to maintain attention that may be slipping. It is important to understand that these tactics are not due to the manipulator loving you and wanting you to stay; rather, it is because your love, attention, and attachment are beginning to fray.
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