Choice...

Sometimes the decision is agonising, and sometimes the decision is not actually theirs.

The question is just one part of the early-30s milieu. There is a distinct loss of ambition. People who have spent years striving and hustling are suddenly questioning it all. If they are not happy being defined by their job, then what do they want to be defined by?

Friends? Family? Apartment? Character? A job seems the easiest when you really start grappling with it. You don’t have to like the person you are if you are defined by your job.

Millennials have had a well-documented prolonged adolescence throughout their 20s, a lot longer to be self-centred. The hangover caused by the realisation life may not be going as it was supposed to is much more severe. They’re also stuck in unstable work and a difficult change in economics.

Suddenly the Millennials are consumed by whether to  live in the suburb,  have another baby, or start a new career.
It is a difficult choice.