Marriages become distressed for a variety of reasons. We see them all; infidelity, addiction, poor communication, lack of love, anger, and more. One of the most common difficulties leading couples to problems is one spouse controlling or dominating the other.
Some controlled or dominated spouses finally had enough and decided not to take it any longer. They took a stand and made it clear that if things do not change the marriage will soon be over. Others fell into an emotional relationship with someone who treated them with dignity and respect. All have one thing in common: they demand a different life than the one they have been subjected.
Though in actuality the marriage has been in trouble for some time, the other spouse did not recognize the severity of the problem. Most controlling or dominating spouses have little comprehension of how their actions affect their spouses. As they become aware of their husband or wife’s negative reactions to them, they typically justify their behaviors by explaining their intentions.
“I thought I was helping by pointing out things to be done better.”
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