Sunday, June 9, 2019

Discarded...

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Probably for no other reason than William Congreve’s famous line, “Heav’n has no rage like love to hatred turn’d / Nor Hell a fury, like a woman scorn’d,”
 About a “woman’s scorn.” : How to avoid it, how to calm it, what causes it, what are the triggers, how long it lasts, how it’s honed over the years in secret covens, etc.?
The short answer: It’s complicated.
Basically, there are as many reasons a woman could have to feel scorn as there are women.

The reason for a woman’s wrath and its extremity depend on age, relationship status, personality, interpersonal dynamics, family history, maturity, chemistry, moon cycles, self-awareness and self-work to name just a few.
Nor is scorn limited to simple, run-of-the-mill rejection. Sometimes it’s unwarranted: Maybe you were harmlessly chatting with a co-worker and your significant other got jealous. Other times it’s completely warranted: Maybe your girlfriend catches you sexting with an ex.

People don’t mind being used, they mind being discarded.

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