When choosing a man, women have two conflicting instincts . On the one hand, they have the natural imperative to select optimal genetic traits, one way of making that selection easy is through hierarchically superior men, a.k.a. "alpha" males.
On the other hand, women want men who can materially provide for their families to come, commit to a long-term relationship, and enjoy interacting with children, a.k.a. "good relationship skills."
Women prefer high-status men. In workplace affairs, men are equally likely to have sex with a superior or subordinate woman. Women, in contrast, are seven times more likely to have sex with superior, rather than subordinate men providing there is a goal behind it.
So to attract women, improve your social status. Give away stuff to make friends. Help less-fortunate individuals, to show that you're above average. Lead groups, e.g., captain your softball team. Dress well, Speak well. Good Luck with that. Just a thought.
