Change..

There are certainly common triggers for divorce.   Men who refuse to change while their wives are constantly looking for ways to change

After menopause, or in the midst of it, women’s biology changes, and many reflect on how they want this new chapter to look. This requires effort because change can be gnarly.

 Men are often either standing still or, in some cases, regressing. It’s a cliché, but men are also not as good at keeping their social lives alive. 

In the UK, 20 per cent of men report having no close friends, compared with 12 per cent of women. More than half (58 per cent) feel they have “no one to rely on in a crisis”.

These are sad stats, and point to the importance of socializing.  Most women plan their kids’ lives (playdates, activities, parties) and their partners’ lives, too. 

 Just a thought.