Some of us think we’re going to end up as cat ladies; others fret about being alone on Valentine’s Day. Whatever your worry, don’t let it drive you to get married for the sake of being coupled.
According to Psychologist and relationship coach Linda Young, Ph.D., people who fear that they can’t be happy without a partner often end up making decisions out of “security-seeking” instead of a healthy ability to depend on other people.
According to Psychologist and relationship coach Linda Young, Ph.D., people who fear that they can’t be happy without a partner often end up making decisions out of “security-seeking” instead of a healthy ability to depend on other people.
The problem with such reasoning is that, if you aren’t happy on your own, there’s little chance that another person’s company is going to change you. Before you tie the knot, remember that the most important relationship in your life is your relationship with yourself.
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